The truth of adult life is these four sentences.

Some people say that nothing is easy in the adult world.

When we were young, we were eager to grow up. We always felt that when we grew up, we could do a lot of things we wanted to do.

But when I really grow up, I find that there are really few things I can do.

Adult life, in fact, is far from being as simple as imagined.

In nature, people have a very unconfident geese psychology. Afraid of leaving the group, afraid of falling behind, afraid of not seeing the wings of the same kind, afraid of not knowing the direction of flying tomorrow once you live alone.

Therefore, we always want to find a group in this world, to be a member, to have something to say, to have something to do, and to follow in the footsteps of others.

In fact, in the end, you will find that some truths in the adult world are cruel.

Half the troubles in life come from agreeing too fast and refusing too slowly.

I think most people have this experience. A friend or colleague asks you for a small favor, because you feel that you can do it at hand, and you will say yes without even thinking about it.

But some things, seemingly trivial, are actually not small.

That's the way it is. Often you really get involved. You want to quit, or you don't do it, and you become a bad person.

Promise too fast and refuse too slowly. You keep your friendship but make yourself uncomfortable.

Many times, when you help others, others will not only be ungrateful, but also feel that you are not doing well enough.

I please everyone, but I still can't live a good life.

It is said that there is a kind of personality in personality called please personality.

No matter what you do, you like to please others and take others' satisfaction as the criterion. No matter who you are facing, no matter what it is.

There will be this kind of flattering personality, mainly because of your own self-distrust. Because you are not confident and feel offended, you can't do something independently, you can't get the trust of others, and you will lose many opportunities.

In fact, you can't please most opportunities.

Not many people really like to please others, and not many people really like people who please others.

Relatives, friends, colleagues, colleagues and even children, even if you please everyone, you still can't live a good life, because you please everyone and actually lose everyone.

If one day, whose person you think has collapsed, it is actually your preset that has nothing to do with him.

I don't know when the word artificial is often mentioned.

Stars will be set, and ordinary people will be set.

Stars are set up to suck powder, to set up a label for themselves, to be recognizable and to make money. The staffing of ordinary people is similar.

For example, kindness, enthusiasm and simplicity.

Everyone will be associated with some behaviors when he is set up, which makes people feel that his person is a real person. In fact, everyone is multifaceted, not a paper man. There is no absolute kindness, no absolute enthusiasm, and no absolute simplicity.

If one day you find that the kindest friend around you is not kind, and there is an evil side, which makes you disgusted, it's actually not that his person has collapsed, but that your preset has collapsed.

Stars collapse, that's about it.

Someone slanders you and slanders you, but they want to be you.

This kind of thing is very common.

This is like being a popular traffic star.

There are countless people who admire you, chase you and like you, but there are also countless people who slander you and slander you. When you are a big hit, it is also the time when you have the most black material.

Even if you really don't have any hard-core black material, people who want to slander you can also artificially create black material just to drag you into the water. And the promoters behind these black materials are actually people who want to be you.

The same is true among ordinary people. When you live better than others, there are always some people who want you to live a miserable life and want to drag you off the horse and throw you dirty water, but they all want to live like you, even better than you.

People's hearts are sometimes more sinister than evil spirits.

There is nothing easy in the world of adults. The truth of adult life is often that every word has a knife and every sentence has a heart. But those who can't beat us will eventually make us stronger.