Introduction: A Hundred Flavors of Life, Five Truths, Just See Through!
1、 The truth about life: No one is not tired, after all, everyone has a difficult scripture to read.
Life is tough, we just need to recognize it. No one's life is always smooth, and no one's life is not tiring.
Fatigue is the norm of life, and we just need to see through this truth of life.
Between heaven and earth, everyone has a difficult scripture to recite. Some people may seem to live a glamorous life, but in reality, they are not happy and have to look at others' faces everywhere. Life is like walking on thin ice.
Some people pretend to be strong in front of others, but cry behind their backs in a corner. Some people think they have married a wealthy person, but still live a humble life, enduring the possibility of infidelity and not daring to resist for the sake of their children.
Some people stumble and stumble in life, their fate is full of hardships, but they can only rely on themselves.
Sometimes you envy others, but in fact, others envy you too, because everyone's life is imperfect. What you have may not be what others have, and what others have, you cannot get.
But in fact, everyone's life has its own hardships and hidden sorrows. Although we live our lives well in our own world, we silently bear everything and live well.
2、 The truth about networking: Don't overestimate your position in others' hearts.
Thinking of Xiaoduo's father in "Stories in Time", he saw that Xiaoduo was about to graduate from college and was worried that his daughter couldn't find a good job. So he wanted all of his college classmates to be executives in the company, so he organized a dinner party and invited them out to take care of his daughter.
At the dinner party, Xiaoduo's father tried to please them by drinking and giving cigarettes. They may sound nice on the surface, but they don't take it seriously the next day after dinner.
Xiaoduo's father went to the newspaper to look for his classmates, but he was unexpectedly invited out. Xiaoduo's father was still unwilling and continued to organize, spending all his savings and not getting a job opportunity for his daughter.
In the end, it was her daughter who relied on her own abilities to enter the television station and work. It was only then that Xiaoduo's father understood that never tell him your position in others' hearts. Taking oneself seriously is equivalent to others not taking you seriously.
Human nature is actually like this, if there is no mutual benefit between people, no one wants to trouble themselves.
So, the so-called network is actually the transfer of benefits. Without benefits, there is nothing to talk about.
3、 The truth about fate: fate is not controlled by people, gathering and parting follow the will of heaven.
In this lifetime, you may meet many people, but who you can be with and who you can be separated from are all arranged by fate.
Between people, where there is reunion, there is separation. Cherish the days of reunion and let go of separation. Everyone has their own path to go, we cannot stop it, only let go and fulfill it.
Just like among our classmates, we met once and lived together once, but eventually we all went our separate ways.
Some people go to big companies as soon as they graduate, some join the military as soon as they graduate, some go home to inherit their parents' legacy as soon as they graduate, and some go out to explore.
Life is fleeting, everyone is a passerby, and everyone has their own life and position. Perhaps we will meet again many years later, or perhaps we will never see each other again in our lifetime.
Time is passing, people are also changing, relationships are also changing. The fate that cannot be kept, the sand that cannot be grasped, must be let go and lifted.
4、 The truth about dealing with people: It's difficult to be confused, not caring is great wisdom.
Throughout one's life, one must interact with others, learn to get along with each other, and learn how to interact with others in order to live a harmonious life.
And when it comes to things that happen between people, if everyone is concerned about everything and wants to protect their own interests, it is difficult to get along with others without any losses.
People live in this world. To be honest, close neighbors are better than distant relatives. It's better to get along well with people around you. When faced with difficulties, it's difficult to get confused. Don't be too concerned. If you can help, help each other. Even if you see things through, don't reveal them.
Because behind everyone's strength, there is only a little bit of dignity left, and learning to leave room for others, to see through without speaking out, is the best wisdom in dealing with life.
5、 The truth about life: Kindness is the beginning of good fortune.
Throughout one's life, one must always maintain kindness. Only by being kind and giving kindness can one accumulate good fortune.
Many times, the reason why one can be lucky in life and encounter helpful people is because they have unconsciously shown kindness, and it comes from the bottom of their heart without expecting anything in return. Therefore, there is a divine arrangement in the depths of the universe.
Many times, your small act of kindness can bring unexpected benefits.
Before doing something, don't always think negatively, and don't always focus on gains and losses. Focus on whether doing something can bring benefits to yourself. The more you focus on it, the harder it is to get rewards.
And when you give it your all, whether it's good or bad, but do good deeds and don't ask about your future, then your life path will become wider and wider.
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