Why get married, and what is the purpose of getting married? How to answer this question? First of all, the two people have feelings. Because of the foundation of love and the unforgettable love, they want to live together. I want to live with you every moment, every moment. Then you have many children together, raise children together, and make money together to support the family. This is the so-called birth of a family. So when the two sides have reached this kind of stage, this kind of realm has been produced, this is the sublimation of love, and it is also the ultimate destination of love. This is also a natural phenomenon that happens naturally!
So just let it go and get married. It's nothing more than a proof of marriage, a legal restriction, and just a piece of paper! So once they get married, the two parties will not only have a beautiful love story like the original one, but also have a more sense of responsibility, a sense of responsibility, a sense of responsibility, and a so-called harmonious social homeland. Sense of responsibility! With marriage and children, there will be family, work, life and career. There will be more aspects involved for the children’s clothing, food, shelter, food and drink, firewood, rice, oil, salt, vinegar and tea, and the pursuit of dream goals in life, etc. , An emotional sustenance.
I’ve been married for many years and I will express my opinion on marriage. Everyone is optimistic about my opinion on marriage.
Now this society is no longer what it used to be. Now men and women have the ability to support themselves, plus their vision and open up life pressure. They often quarrel for money, so they are all AA after all, and children are nothing more than getting married to complete tasks...not much to say Now, let’s say the following words. Anyone who is away can live. The home is not like home. Plus my parents are different from the parents of my friends. People’s parents are helping their children to do this and that. I don’t have the money. My parents still toss myself from time to time. Except for the children and the Chinese New Year, I have a daughter-in-law at home. It doesn’t really matter at other times. I think it’s good to be single and find a girlfriend if you don’t get married. It’s cheap to eat, and it’s cheap and all kinds of comfort... After getting married and waiting to a certain extent, it’s fucking quarreling every day. I still have to be single when I go together. She can’t help me. If time can go back, I will choose the life I want and let the flow go... After all, I don’t know if you understand it.
One is that marriage between men and women is a declaration of sexual maturity. Male colleges should be married, female colleges should be married, but at what age is the older age? Now, there are regulations in various countries, and some stipulate that men and women reach the age of marriage at 9 years old, but most countries have regulations. Above 15-16 years old, my country stipulates that 18 years old is the dividing line for men and women to reach adulthood. The marriage age is 20 years for women and 22 years for men. Many countries and ethnic groups are still popular in holding adult rites. This should be explained. When men and women reach the age to marry, it is actually a declaration of sexual maturity, indicating that men and women at this stage can get married.
The second is that the marriage of men and women is a proof of the sexual belonging of men and women and a sign of human civilization. Marriage of men and women, no matter ancient or modern, has a kind of ceremony. Now, including China, it is certified by law. In some western countries, oaths are taken in churches, but there are blessings from relatives and friends. This is actually the proof of the sexual belonging of men and women. From then on, the power of men and women in terms of sex has a clear pertinence. They can only be used with each other. Others can't make ideas, and you can't make other people's ideas. Otherwise, you will be condemned. In China, there are both family law service and national law service, and even life is in danger. Now, the law, especially the Chinese law, seems to be relatively loose in this regard, the regulations are not very strict, and it seems to belong to the category of morality. This is also the relative derailment of Chinese men and women. The root cause is more widespread, but in the religious world, especially Islamic countries and regions, the penalties for men and women cheating are still quite serious. It seems cruel to us, and some of them are stoned to death.
Therefore, having a child is like a home. Because of the children's laughter, there is the warmth of home, and the vitality and infinite vitality of the home. Because the child is the connecting belt of both parties, it is a crystallization of the sublimation of two people's feelings, so the child is the button that connects the husband and wife. Even if some couples have experienced a long period of passionate precipitation and become a crisis in their relationship, there have been some frictions, some disagreements or parting ways, but they often do something for the sake of their children. Infinite tolerance and tolerance. Therefore, only the feelings of parents for their children are the most real, and that is the deepest love! So this is the birth of a kind of marriage and family, which is a sense of mission.
Everyone who has an attitude will hold a marriage and family responsibility and the child is supreme, will have such a correct concept, will work tirelessly for this family, work hard to make money and support the family! This is also for the harmonious coexistence of society, and also for the breeding of future generations of mankind. This is one of the most traditional natural phenomena of mankind, and raising future generations will also contribute to the country's cultivation of socialist successors, so let's dedicate our own strength! So people are like this. Getting married means more responsibility, more responsibility and a sense of responsibility and family, and it is also for social harmony. This is a natural union between men and women, so the above is my point of view!
The purpose before marriage is to reproduce offspring and maximize capital. In the past, women had no economic status at all, so women must live by relying on men. The economic status of modern women is equal to that of men, so the purpose of marriage is also different. Some people get married when they meet someone who wants to get married. Some people think that everyone else is married, and they can't be other people's aliens. Then they find someone with similar conditions to get married.
In fact, you have to ask your heart about this question, and sometimes your heart has already told you the answer. No matter what the marriage is for, girls must have their own financial resources.
The third is a symbol of blood relationship. Why do we have parents and children and relatives? This is actually due to the marriage of men and women, which allows us to know who are the parents, who are the sisters, who are the children, and who are our relatives. In the animal world, although parents They love their children very much, but when the children grow up, they don’t know each other, and they don’t know anyone, let alone their sisters and relatives. They may have chaotic sex. A unique blood relationship network. From birth to death, you know who your relatives are, and close relatives cannot get married. In the past, sisters could not get married. Now, three generations of close relatives cannot get married. This kind of regulation is for the reproduction of human beings. It is quite beneficial and can guarantee the health of offspring to the greatest extent. This is also a fundamental reason why human emotions are more abundant than animals.
The mind becomes narrow because of possession.
Marriage is a product of selfishness, and its motive and purpose is to occupy each other forever.
Marriage is a fishing hook with aromatic bait. Once you get the bait, you will be free from the sea where you can swim freely. From then on, you can only soak in a small pond, and you can only sigh at the vast sea.
It is easy to get hooked and difficult to decouple. Once you get hooked into marriage, you will be hooked into a program called a family. Once you enter this program, you can't help yourself, and you will be a slave to the family for life.
There is no marriage and no family in the heaven. Jesus said, there is no marriage or no marriage in the heaven. The Buddha demonstrated that if you want to go to the realm of bliss, you must rush out of the family.
What is the purpose of getting married? To put it bluntly is to pass on the lineage, this is a person's potential responsibility. When a person reaches a certain age, he (she) may not worry about not having a husband or wife, but he or she will definitely worry about having no offspring. On the contrary, to put it nicely, it is to get married in pursuit of their own happiness, but there will be a large number of people who are married and yearning for the days of being single.
Therefore, I personally think that most of the reasons for getting married are to pass on the family line. This is my personal opinion and opinion.
Fourth, it is conducive to the healthy reproduction of human beings. Since men and women have formed a relatively independent organization after they get married, this organization has since then given birth to children under the leadership of the elders, and can raise the children to the greatest extent and receive effective protection, and the elders can get them when they get old. The protection of children is better to go through the whole life, so that their own children will love themselves, and their parents will love themselves. This is also a manifestation of human civilization. It is one of the biggest differences from animals. Propagating according to this law is also the fundamental reason why human beings can finally rule this earth, and their wisdom is higher than that of other animals.
Why do you want to get married? Why do you have to put a rope around your neck? Why make a mess of precious life, people are not people, ghosts are not ghosts? Is there no other way to survive?
Human values believe that marriage and family is justified. The Bible created Eve for Adam and required the two to become one. From then on, no one would doubt that there is nothing wrong with marriage and family. People have gone all the way from ancient times to today. The results of it? Who is happy? Who is free?
There is no marriage or family in the millennium that I have lived in. The happiness and freedom that people enjoy is incomparable to the people of the earth. That is the life of the people. In comparison, the people of the earth are like living in hell.
Getting married is a matter of course! It is difficult to tell why, the benevolent see benevolence, and the wise see wisdom. Everyone hopes to live a happier and happier life after marriage, so it can also be said that marriage is actually the pursuit of happiness!
People usually like to call their partners "the other half." In fact, this started with a myth in Plato's "Meeting Drinks", and it has been influential to this day. The general idea is that people are looking for their other half throughout their lives, otherwise life will be incomplete.
This kind of myth has been passed down to this day, so much so that many people regard "finding one's partner in order to make people complete" as the core pursuit of life.
Not only that, but marriage is now considered to be a manifestation of people's realization of self-worth. Therefore, people are naturally considered to be "either already married, or on the road to marriage." When people talk about "single", they often think of "marriage" or "partner" naturally.
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