How is the child's heart twisted
If you are an ordinary parent, you don't have much resources, don't have much culture, and don't know how to educate your children. You should encourage him more, recognize him more, praise him more, reward him more, understand him more, and support him more.
Don't forcibly transfer your cognition, anxiety, fear, anger, or grievance to your children. This is the best education and the best love for your children. If you beat and scold the child, the child will not stop loving you, but will stop loving yourself, don’t you feel scary?
As long as the child's heart grows up and the heart is alive, you don't have to worry about it. No matter how many difficulties and setbacks he encounters as an adult, he can survive.
If you are not upset by yourself, always worry about your children, beat them up all day long, belittle them, deny them, and always want to control them, then you are basically finished.
His heart freezes, or he hasn't grown up, and stays in the childhood of helplessness, helplessness, loneliness, and helplessness. Then he will have a very difficult life as an adult.
After adulthood, like a helpless child, he needs to be taken care of, promised, valued, and understood in order to move. If he doesn’t, he feels aggrieved, feels bad life, and seeks comfort from all over the world. Seek understanding, and live in confusion and helplessness
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